Saturday, June 15, 2013

CONFIDENCE...In YOURSELF....

The time will come when you will ask the question "What have I done with my Life?" Your life will be almost over and your grave already dug. Its a sad fact were all dying and getting closer and closer to the end. Many will ask the question and wonder WHY? Why didn't I go for my dreams and spend more time with family then working on my career? Why didn't I take that leap of faith and travel and explore and swim with the sharks? Why didn't I forgive my friend? Why did I care so much about how others saw me and spend all that money on useless things when I could have spent it on my education or on something more meaningful? Why didn't I take the time to get to know my parents while they were still around? Why did I waste my Time on the things in life that don't Matter? why?

There are a thousand reasons WHY we Ask The question WHY... and a lot of the times we know the reason...the answer is simple- (We make excuses)  We don't always see how much time we waste doing the things that don't matter.... like watching television or working late hours or simply drinking ourselves to death at a random bar even falling into addictions. There is a way out of those distractions if you take the time out to help yourself become the person you want to be. Don't Make any more excuses and find yourself asking Why?   START NOW.... Don't waste another precious moment.......
Let not the time pass and find yourself asking the questions WHY... WHY NOT DECIDE TODAY TO LIVE.....?


TAKE THE RISK AND FALL....... You might find out you can FLY......

Start writing down in a journal your Goals and dreams and how to accomplish those dreams. Do something everyday that makes you feel alive and grateful and joyful to be alive.  DON'T waste another minute because time does slip away....... 
You can do Great things. You are worth it.....

People don't always care. its true and life sucks sometimes. My advise change yourself. Decide to be the person you want to be
no one else matters. All that matters is how you see yourself.

When you do that people who care will come into your life but don't wait around and feel sorry for yourself when you find people don't care. Sometimes people don't always think about others. 

The Fact is you cant change others or but you can change yourself.
You cant expect people to know you right away or care right away. Because they probably feel the same way that you do and are scared and shy and afraid to get to know others. Choose to be happy today and tomorrow it'll come naturally. 
Don't care about what others think or if they care because there already thinking the same things you are. 
When your single all you see are the couples and when your a couple all you see is are the single people walking around. 
truth is you have more than one soul mate. so its possible to come across one of them. 
Take chances and be brave and SPEAK UP your VOICE matters and allow others to get to know you. 
Don't expect anyone else to talk first. you have to decide for yourself its what you want. you wanna be handsome or Beautiful then start acting like you already know you are and people will notice. 
If you really don't like how you look then change yourself. Life is too short to be wasting time wondering WHAT IF.
Tomorrow I'll get fit. Tomorrow I'll talk to that girl. Tomorrow I'll start studying and Tomorrow I'll be happy. TODAY is the day you start living the life you want. 
When you decide Today to be happy and go for those goals you will  find Success.
 SO Don't waste another minute and BE THE PERSON YOU WANT TO BE. "The Things you tell the brain the most it will CREATE". So here's the question? After reading this what did you decide? 


HOW YOU CAN START....
1. Do something everyday that makes you feel alive and grateful to be alive
2. Keep a Dream journal. so you can remember the crazy things your brain thinks about when your asleep.
3.Keep a Goals Journal. Write down all your short term and long term goals and figure out how to accomplish those goals. 
4. Keep a Gratitude Journal so you can write down everyday what you are grateful for and why. You may find you had a better day then you thought.
5. Keep a Day Journal. To write down everything that happened that day so you can pass on your life to your children.
6. ALWAYS keep a small thought book in your pocket or bag so any quotes or thoughts you hear or find you can record. Any new goals or things your thankful for. so you won't forget. 
7. Always keep on you a small Camera to capture the moments. Maybe even a small video camera like an I-Flip to capture those funny moments. The truth is we don't remember Days but we remember moments. 
8. Keep many Scarp books and record those amazing events.
9. Make time for the ones you Love because that's the way you show them your love. Time is the most precious Gift you can give someone. 
10. Understand Success is not Given. The key to Success is Hard WORK. but don't forget to play. 
11. KEEP A CALENDER and Maybe even a planner. Because an organized day is a much easier day. You can't Expect the unexpected but you can plan to be surprised. 

Take each day one at a Time and Laugh as much as you can. Some days can feel overwhelming but just slow down and breath and write a list of importance and take each task one at a time. 

The KEY to happiness is choice...Choose to Be Happy Today 
Find the balance. A Healthy Physical, Mental, Emotional and Spiritual Self
Knowledge is the only thing that can give anyone power. So read many books and know how the world works. You are intelligent, successful and  worth it. 

Just Figure the rest out...... You can diffidently no doubt in my mind do it.
.....When the time comes don't ask WHY but WOW what a Life I have Lived..... 


Rules of importance

Love God-Love Others-Love Yourself

God Fist-You SECOND and World Third

pay God-Pay yourself then pay Bills.


Don't always look for the rainbow at the end of the storm but enjoy the rain and sounds and dance, sing, and Laugh because before you know it the darkness will have lifted of your shoulders and the sun will shine and beautiful colors clothed around you for comfort and you will feel grateful to have surpassed the storm. 
some people pursue happiness and others decide to just create it. 





  






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